Blog Category: cfzr.com — Blogged by: jane on March 9, 2010 at 5:26 pm
Okay so your watching tv or walking down the street with a guy and a sexy woman walks by, or is in the show or on a Commercial. I know that it is instinct for a guy to look, but when he is out and out disrespectful about it, like he says DAMN she has a fat ***. I just think that that is so grossly disrespectful. I thought that if a guy does that to me then it shouldn't bother him if I do it. So I tried it and the guy had a fit, he even got violent. Why do men do things like that that they know would eat them alive if a woman did it to them. Are they trying to make a woman jealous? or do they just not care? What is it?***? huh? where? let me see? hahahahahNot everyone is the same. I personally do not shout out ludicrous things orally, but I will be thinking to myself how beautiful the woman is! I may even take a peak while you are not looking, but I'm never disrespectful. Some men are just immature and do not know how to handle something beautiful that is God given. And some guys or sensitive, when others are not; it all depends on the person.Most guys are too ignorant to even get to that point of thinking how you would feel. Besides guys who say things like that in front of women are probably lacking class. Keep moving. Plus if he got violent, that's a real sign that he is, as I like to say, a couple of rungs down the evolutionary ladder. Find someone else, not all guys are like that.im a guy and i think they are jerks bc i mean really if i was going 2 do it i would also have 2 let her do it i mean if im going 2 break her heart cant she break mine right back? I think it's just guys chasing a piece of ***...actually its quite sadthey don't think about what they're saying when they think a woman is 'hot'. they need to get her attention, but they don't know how else to do it.It's disrespectful and not every guy does it.
You need to raise your standards a tad my dear.I don't date men that say things like that. (yes I know they look but it dosen't bother me)You realize that "fat" is not a compliment, right? Or do I just not realize that it is...
So, he hit you when you told him another guy had a fat butt? He does sound confusing.Maybe to make you jealous. When my guy used to look, I take his hat off his head and use it to smack him upside the back of his head. It cured him! He actually just loved me being feisty. A lot of men are immature and have no impulse control so they say whatever comes into their head.
I blame poor parentingWow. I believe it is just plain rudeness, guys like that are the type that girls shouldn't date. Good job to all those women who don't :). Those guys were just born without manners unlike myself (lol) and other gentlemen around the world. :D
Cheers. Hope you like my answer.well if that's the problem your running into you got to pick better guys to go out with. Its impossible to find a guy who does not stare at other women because and this goes for women staring at men also there are always more attractive people then the person your going out with . Report Abuse
hA! He's being a hypocrit. He gets jealous easily. Someone like that is probably insecure with themselves, and is afraid you're just gonna up and leave him because you checked out some other guy. Tell him that you feel it is disrespectful when he does that to girls when you're with him. And if he got violent because of that, you may actually be better off leaving him, he's obviously got inferiority issues.Gentlemen, look and silently admire and make nice compliments, dumb A$$e$ say stupid things. We aren't all like those guys you mentioned. Anyway, A bonehead stupid enough to say something disrespectful in front of a lady deserves all he gets negatively.Well as a man, I would never do that even if the girl I was with was only a friend, but if a guy that you are dating does look or even comment about it, he is not really interested in you on a deep level. It's only about sex, and he really doesn't respect you or himself.It sounds to me like your bigger problem is that you date assholes.Men like nice asses and ****, nothing you can do about it. Mabe you should be a lesbian. That's how all of us are. Even though we are with a girlfriend, we still look. But some of us do have some respect. The guy you were with was just being himself. Just let him know. He probably doesn't know any better. It will be desrespectful if he does it again. I hope he wisens up for you.Men don't care if it is humiliating to you heck they don't even think about how their behavior effects you. It's as if in that instant you cease to exist and as for doing it back Never do that don't lower yourself besides their egos are to fragile to take it.
If he got violent with you though kick him to the curb No Man has the right to do that to you for Any Reason.its only with some guys..just like some women, honestly it sounds like your trying to convert straights into a life of lesbian.I wouldn't be attracted to someone who acted like that. At the first hint of that type of behavior I would be out the door. boys love to look the girls. and the look evrything .you behind, you legs ,you hear, how you walk, how you talk and some times they say things.is the natural life of ure sexuality. no harm don. that is normalGuys are just idiots!!! Try commenting back at him saying something like her a$$ isn't that big. And They just don't care.Where the eyes go the rest of him will follow. If you have a guy who is doing this it might be time to have a talk with him about it.all ppl are diffrent i dont look at other girls since i have a gfjealousyI do not date men like that either. You can do better. Do not settle for less than a gentleman with true manors.They Are IDIOTS.they think they are giving her a compliment while if a girl says that about a guy they dont see it in the same light, u need to get upset when a guy does it around u. i hate when guys rev engines at me or whistle or yell across a road or room at me, im like u IDIOT. i no exactly what u mean.i think you need to hang out with some men of higher quality. maybe a little more refined.I think it's acceptable to glance at good looking people, we all do it, don't deny..
But making an outright comment is a bit disrespectful..
We all do it with the lads, but when you're with your lady you need to show respect.
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