How to stop crushin.....?

Blog Category: cfzr.com — Blogged by: rose on December 3, 2008 at 12:13 pm
  • i think im developing a crush on this guy from my class, but the thing is i dont want a boyfriend at all...its really annoying becuase sometimes thats all i think about...how do you get over this...and please dont say change the subject i've tried that already......


  • you can't really help it. That's just nature doing its work.

    But you can find out something that he does that you find gross. a turnoff will help you lose the crush symptoms.

    Try to avoid him and keep busy.


  • Love (or like) hits you when you least expect it. You're not looking for it and your not thinking about it. That's when it happens.

    There is no 'real' way to get over this. Just let nature take its course.

    If nothing else, if could be a lot of fun.

    Good Luck


  • Keep telling yourself that you have a whole life ahead of you, that he will be available in the future, and when the time is right and you think it's ok to have a boyfriend, he will still be around. This might not be true, but at least you will not rush into the crush and take action. Knowing time is on your side will help you relax and not focus so much on him. Then concentrate on school, your family at home and other things you enjoy.


  • Get a life?


  • Busy yourself with school and keep repeating to yourself that you don't want a boyfriend.

    But sometimes you just can't fight it, no matter how hard you try.


  • Okay,
    To be very honest you've described my life, I had this huge crush on a girl from my class and believe me I started thinking I was in love.Sometimes I even thought of initiating but I never did that because of the same reason you have underlined, I didn't wanted a girl friend either.There's something I did and it worked wonders, so I hope helps you out too.
    Don't try to look at him at all.Look at a bad habit he has.Hating him is maybe the only way you can come over a huge crush, so hate him for flirting with some other girl, or something like that.Secondly, love yourself, it maybe a fact that you love yourself but try harder and love yourself and give yourself some more care and time.Do things that you wanna do that can keep any thoughts of him away.
    Night's can be horrible as you tend to think about your crush the most so try to check that feelings in you and do something like study a bit, television can help or some of your hobbies could help(I love music and I can play many instruments but couldn't a guitar so I learned that at nights) and believe me in some days you'll be over him.
    DON'T TALK TO HIM OR LET HIM TALK TO YOU BEFORE YOU'RE COMPLETELY OVER HIM as this will put you back to where you started(has happened to me).
    This was just a suggestion, the final decision is always yours.
    Thank You..........R


  • you can't. if you like him, you like him... BUT, you can try to distract yourself. I know, I hate this whole male/female thing. it's hard and gets in the way of everything. lol
    it's the way God made us, though.


  • Ok, Youre gonna have to trust me on this one.
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  • do your school stuff, the only way to really get over someone when you like them is when they dissapoint you & are a total douche haha